Relationships with self reflect how we value and relate to the world around us, including personal and business relationships.


We begin with my Relationships because in my experience it is the quality of our relatibeing in relationshiponships shape us, they influence the choices we make, they can also be a very powerful catalyst for change as Anthony Robbins continues to remind us.


I love to study success. Robert Kiyosaki forms relationships with business associates as well as having a remarkable marriage with his wife Kim, who empowers him as he empowers her, I personally was around Robert over 3plus years during his friequent tours in Australia


The most memorable relationship I’ve ever experienced was with a courageous man who was willing to follow his feelings.

I met him while he was here on a business trip.

We had an instant attraction and made the most of the evening, knowing his return home the following night was critical.


I drove him to the airport on time, we hugged and kissed, and he said he would be back in two weeks time. I watched him board the plane then drove home.


Half an hour later I was surprised by a knock on the door; there stood my man - the man I left at the airport presented me with a fabulous bottle of champagne and simply said: “I missed my plane.”


For an average working man to miss the plane back to work may be easy to do, but when you have a company with millions of dollars at stake it takes some courage.


It would have been so easy to use the company as an excuse not to feel his most important feelings. We enjoyed the rest of the evening and many more years together.


Though he travelled between Melbourne and the Gold Coast every two weeks, and I worked full-time as an interior designer, we shared every possible moment together. He would collect me from my office and take me with him to business dinners. When he had site meetings after hours I was there with him; when he dined with his  business partners and their business connections. 



I was by his side, so were the partners or wives of his business associates and friends.


Successful men and women rarely dine alone.


We were also available for one another when we were thousands of kilometres apart: whenever I thought of him he would sense that and I would receive a phone call from him saying that he thought of me at that exact same time. Even though we were both very busy people.


Because we were there for one another, time did not exist, it just flowed.

We were truly connected.

 Together and available

Whenever he had site meetings after hours, I was there with him, when he dined with his business partner and their business connections I was there with him also, these were successful business people who valued their women, they chose their life partners to be there by their sides, this empowered them. (more to come on that later)

There are no excuses big enough to be separate from the one you truly desire to be with, to sleep with, to share our precious time with. Time is something one cannot buy, trade or exchange but by how we manage it. to fully appreciate life we need great people around us to enable that free time for ourselves, when we truly access our lives we do not desire to be alone for too long.being together


Dare to Truly Care

  • Have you ever dared to care this much about who you spend your time with? 
  • Do you know if the people you chose to be with are by your side? 
  • Have you ever allowed your feeling to show to this extent? 
  • Would you like to discover this level of connection for yourself? 


My Past Endeavours


I have a background in interior design, project coordination, sales marketing, and music. I then studied Health (while studying I worked full time while attending classes full time and had time for personal and social life) and subsequently worked in the most prestigious of health retreats.

While working at Camp Eden Health Retreat I heard about Robert Kiyosaki  the story of how I arrived there shall be added at a later date, in the meantime I'd like to share this with you. 


I was also invited to travel with renowned author and success coach Anthony Robbins for a year.


My travel began as part of his R & R team in his Savu Savu Namale resort in Fiji.


Below Tony speaks about the difference between success and no success the difference is often just a millimeter out.





While there, I met a gentleman who was willing to pay $1,000,000.00 ( and he did) for the privilege of travelling and being coached by Tony Robbins.


This man was there because he wished to attract a specific woman and he was willing to dedicate a whole year and 1 million US$ to work on himself. Why? Because he knew that to achieve anything one needs to work on oneself first, not on the other person.

Yet remarkably I hear ordinary people giving excuses for choosing not to connect even for a few hours, imagine how limiting that belief system, there is always a way of setting aside time to improve one self


We are shaped by our experiences and determination; qualifications and at times even experience not always everything.

At the end of the day it is our attitude that gets it for us.


Prior to becoming interior designer I had a remarkable challenge.

I chose to change direction in my life, take up a new profession, the feeling was so powerful

In seeking through job opportunities, I spotted an ad for curtain sales. This appealed to me since I've always loved presenting my home beautifully plus I had a strong sales background. That was not my ultimate dream, but it had possibilities because ultimately I loves sales and was great at it. I would only ever sell what I loved and knew well.


The position advertised was strictly for experienced applicants.

I had absolutely no experience, therefore I left it for a few days to enable them to interview the prospects, then I called; stating clearly that I had no experience, but I so wanted to learn.

They informed me the applicants they've had so far despite being very experienced were not suitable primarily due to their attitude and presentation. Their intention was to advertise again the following weekend, and if they did not have a suitable applicant, I would be considered.


I waited a few days again, giving them time to meet/access the applicants suitability, I know how valuable experience is to a business, the expense of training is staggering especially if they do not last the distance.


A few days later I turned up at the store, the owner was busy so I waited ( for hours), again they wished to try the third week advertising for experienced prospect, by then I knew the job was mine, I really wanted that change so much.


Within a few days I received that call inviting me to join them, I was ecstatic.


Why am I sharing this with you? People expect to get a job based on a piece of paper, qualifications are not everything. The right attitude can be trained for the job. The job application based on a CV does not necessarily reflect great attitudes.



About interior design;


I joined the business as a protege, my employer was my mentor, I had not studied interior design, it was my attitude that was  hired, within 3 months I was running the Qld operations designing quoting business protegecoordinating millions of dollars worth of projects every month.

Involved with every aspect including designing, costing, tracking the orders for each job, coordinating all the trades and working to deadlines. ( To earn my place for this position I accepted nominal remuneration, started work often at 6 am, had a second job in the evenings, when not working evenings, I  often worked back till 9pm, again I had a fabulous social life and love life.)


It's all about time  management. I find most people offer so little of themselves, never knowing how much a fully involved life is truly worth.)



Weekends were full of fun, laughter and great company often on Yachts, Luxury Cruiser, magnificent dinners in top restaurants that provided exceptional service, with fabulous people who respected each other.  


When you love what you do, you are energized by it you are truly part of your existence not just a slave to a well worn path. 

Site inspections. delivery. placement. finishes, meeting deadlines and ensuring all paymsite inspectionsents were received, some due to the vastness of the projects were progress payments.


I worked with a dedicated team that delivered excellence and on time, something few have had the privilege of experiencing.

Most important of all was completing every project on schedule. Delays are costly, momentum is lost and are not tolerated in any successful business. 

Jim Rhon is a remarkable mentor to me & in particular Robert Kiyosaki with whom I trained followed by assisting in his seminars facilitating wherever required. Robert has co-written a book with Donald Trump.


Consistent desire, purpose and mentoring


I have been a pianist, and a good one. But without a teacher to direct Pianistme, challenge me, and support me I could not have passed all the exams. Without encouragement I would not have exercised my fingers by practicing scales every day up to 2 hours, next to perfecting my musical presentation.

Because of my teacher’s encouragement I could play the piano for hours and still be wanting more. I started when I was 9 years old, a year after arriving in Australia, on a friend’s piano, and started teaching piano at the age of 12.


Please don't let your assumptions prevent you from making a discovery that could be a turning point in your life.    Passion of Dance

My Life Coaching is unlike anything you have ever experienced. Like the Passion of the Dance - this level of Life Coaching connects you with the universal pulse of life - the rhythm of ecstasy flowing through your entire body, awakening and expanding your inner capacity for joy, healing, passion, love, and life. This is the dance of the soul that only my Life Coaching can offer, in its unique and personalized way.



We are all conditioned to try and fit in, and often when we look for services 

We fall into the same patterns and expectations: remarkably we find comfort in conformity. 

There is a tendency to seek validation; to feel we belong to something. It feels safe, true, but it does not truly liberate us.

In conformity there is no growth. In applying yet another system we do not truly break free.

Life Coaching is not a system.


It is a deep awakening journey from within.


Each time you touch and/or are touched you enter into a new environment.

You have evolved since the last time you were touched; your needs and dreams are more profound; every cell is communicating; inside you are more and more connected to you. Therefore you touch and respond differently - with yourself, the world around you, and your partner.


Life Mentoring (Coaching)  is completely customised to meet your personal (and business) needs and challenges - when you develop more tools and skills in your life your preferences will change, and my work with you will change accordingly 




The poet E.E. Cummings wrote:   

“A lot of people think or believe or know they feel - but that’s thinking or believing or knowing, not feeling. And poetry is feeling - not knowing or believing or thinking.”

Almost anybody can learn to think or believe or know, but not a single huFeelingman being can be taught to feel.


Why? Because when you think or believe or know, you carry a lot of other people with you, but the moment you feel you are nobody but yourself.


In a world that is doing its best, night and day, to make you like everybody else, being nobody but yourself means fighting the hardest battle any human can fight.


---- E.E. Cummings    


  • When this energy is realized it then requires direction: finding the right guidanenergy realisedce and establishing the right environment, including friendships and our work and surroundings, is critical for most people.  
  • When this new power is discovered it needs to be harnessed. 
  • So, no matter where you are in life, you can discover quality and embrace and maintain higher standards in every area of your life.  
  • Don’t settle for less than what you dreamed of. Know that you can always receive what you ask for, and always give what your friends and partner ask for; imagine there is a way for everyone to get what they want from those around them.  
  •  Once we know what is available to us, we can ask for more than we ever believed to be possible.   



Note from Tasja (Tasha)

If you have had enough of the void in your life, always seeking but settling for comfortable rather than transforming in the end; if you have had enough of quick fixes that do not give you the total feeling of love you want in your life; to take the leap contact my office to learn more.


Us working together (the team in training - more details on this soon) supported by our unique skills below is my vision this applies to my work my team as well as with my clients.


Remember what Napoleon Hill said:


"before success comes, we are sure to meet with much temporary defeat, and, perhaps, some failure.


When defeat overtakes us, the easiest and most logical thing to do is quit.

And that is exactly what the majority of men and women do.


" So, there's no point in being in the majority!


Let's get ourselves into the minority, turn our lives around, do this for ourselves by becoming healthy in every area of our lives, in particular our relationship with our bodies, our lover and the people around us".